visibility

The cost of HIDING is now greater than the cost of BEING SEEN.

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Oh self-doubt…

Self-doubt is running on a level deep below the surface, only to pop out and be seen when you are allowing yourself to step more fully into allowing yourself to Be Seen.

The actions you take, the new beliefs you hold that are integrating in every cell in your body, are starting to shake the very foundation of this self-doubt program.

It is holding on for dear life, KNOWING that it serves you in some way, begging to stay in place, slipping away when you begin to really get a sense of it.

Self-doubt peeks around and asks you to look at it. See it in the eyes. Hold it in your hands. Offer it love, acceptance, appreciation, and compassion.

There are so many ways it has served you throughout your life. Keeping you from shining the bright light on your greatness to keep you safe, belonging and being loved.

Keeping your greatness from truly being seen served you before, but now it is time that you can’t keep that hidden any longer.

It is time to shed the masks, to release the layers of untruths, to just BE who you are – without apology, without exception.

The cost of HIDING is now greater than the cost of BEING SEEN.

And even then, self-doubt will peek back out again and check – are you sure?

Are you sure you want to do this? 
Are you sure you are safe? 
Are you sure I can’t still help you?

And just like a child who is getting ready to experience something new and exciting – they may cling to your leg and then pull away, only to come back to check in with you again.
But this part of you knows that it is time. 
You are safe.

You are ready to “risk” being the fullest expression of yourself – because everything else is just another way of fighting against yourself, keeping parts of yourself hidden – and truly that’s just so much more work.

So you choose THIS version of “ease”. The one that still feels new and not completely settled - and not so easy. But THIS version is the one that is ready to BE SEEN.
You are safe.

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Want to be more VISIBLE - to create more Influence and Impact?

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Want to be more VISIBLE - to create more Influence and Impact?

"Just take these Actions"...

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Please no.

I know you know that taking action is important.

And NOT taking action is also important!

There are times when stillness, silence, and sitting is what creates the next burst of insight, creativity, and inspiration.

If you are always moving, you miss the truth, the deeper knowing, the ease.

The consistent action keeps you ABOVE, keeps your head in the clouds in a way that keeps you "safe" from connecting to the "reality".

It seems safer up there, easier

But that constant level of stress and anxiety in your system is actually doing more harm than turning up your Brave-o-meter and taking a look.

So the REALITY is that the more connected you are to your truth, the more VISIBLE you will be.

Visible where the quality of busy actions isn't meaninful or impactful but where the truth of your essence shines so bright it can't NOT be seen.

So yes, be more visible. 
Do it for the right reasons.
Shine your light and illuminate your truth. 
And let it be seen by all who will be impacted.

Don't just take more Actions. 
Upgrade your whole system to BE SEEN, even greater...
to BE WITNESSED in all it's greatness.

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What does it actually mean to be successful?

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What does it actually mean to be successful?

Is it a certain amount of money?
A certain number of clients?
A certain amount of "busy"ness?

Who actually cares?

Yes, you do -
And it doesn't matter what anyone else "thinks", REALLY.
let's be real...

how many clients you have doesn't actually mean anything to anyone - except you
How often you see those clients doesn't actually mean anything to anyone else - but you...
How many hours you choose to "work" doesn't actually mean anything to anyone else - but you...

Can we be done with all this?

I understand it's easy to generalize the Desires...

And it is creating an experience of DISCONNECTION

Disconnection from what's true - for YOU.
Disconnection from the Desire.
Disconnection from yourself.
Disconnection from your Truth.

What do YOU actually want to experience?

I invite you to pull all of your seeking, trying, people pleasing energy back into your center.

Invite it all in - even the sticky parts.

Give it as much time as it needs to find its way back.
No judgement.

Now, from here, what do YOU actually WANT to be experiencing?

Can that be YOUR definition of success?

For today, this week, this year.

You can always change it.

This actually is all about YOU, so let's let everyone else have their own experience.

My quantum leap is actually just a step... (yes and no)

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My quantum leap is actually just a step... (yes and no)

It feels like the edge, the precipice, the next big thing coming...

It feels exciting and the nerves are rushing

It feels like an old interpretation of anxiety, but this version of me knows this nuance better, more refined

It grows bigger, and bigger

And then the energy moves down
Feeling the truth that is below me and around me

And I can see clearly the step forward

What felt like the next quantum leap, the thing that takes all the courage, the willingness, the faith...

Is actually just a step

No jumping
No leaping
No guessing

Just a step
Just another step

That's it.

That's the quantum leap.

Every step is my next quantum leap...

AND EVEN THAT IS ALL AN ILLUSION.

The "step" is an illusion of my resistance,

No step is needed.

There's a bridge
With unlimited support
Carrying me

If I LET IT

What will it take for me to choose?

Safety for my brain...
And my brain can see the safety.

What will it really take?

I have to CHOOSE it.

And I do.

And what I ride of grounded, support and ease that is carrying me.

Oh such a tricky pattern that can keep me from RECEIVING.

And the truth that it's so much easier to CHOOSE it than to RESIST it

So here I am, 
And here I go.


(Art by Eugenia Loli)

Are you TOO BIG?

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Isn't it time to stop playing the "I'll smash myself down to make it ok for you" game?

What if you leaned toward your bigness? 
What if you amplified your greatness? 
What if you activated your gifts even more?

Yep, some people might not be able to handle it, and some may not even be able to see you anymore.

And those who are meant to see you for who you are will be able to see you, hear you, connect with you in a way that feels so much lighter, simpler, and true.

It's exhausting holding it in.

And, it's not an invitation to let your Ego run wild all over everyone.

It is an invitation to shine brighter from the light in you, your truth, your essence, your greatness.

People who need you to be smaller so they can be ok are not in your highest and best good.

And you are not serving them in being their highest self by pretending to be something your not.

Sure, you're still working through your stuff.

And you probably always will be in some fashion, as that's the rapid path of expansion you are riding, right?

And THAT doesn't mean you have to "hold it in" until... some point not yet defined.

It's time to take up space NOW

It's time to amplify your light NOW

It's time to activate your greatness NOW

This isn't an intellectual process, it's an energetic upgrade.

This is one of the energetic patterns of (in)visibility that shows up for people here to create their great change in the world.

Do you want support on this path? Message me and let's take a look at what's available.
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There are layers and layers and layers...

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BEING SEEN is not just a setting of ON and OFF.

There are layers and layers and layers.

Who you are and how much of yourself you let BE SEEN may vary in different groups, with different people, in different settings.

The more we release the need or desire for it to be done or complete.

The more we are available to move through what is available for you in each moment.

Without judgement
With curiosity.

Are you open and curious to moving through the next layer of invisibility - no matter how that may be presenting itself - so just a bit more of YOU can truly BE SEEN?

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