Do YOU feel like you are truly BEING SEEN in YOUR business? 

I have been speaking with some AMAZING women these last few weeks.  Women who are industry changers, leaders, visionaries, people with a big mission and a desire to create a big impact!  And the thing that showed up again and again is that they are somehow keeping themselves from really putting their work and themselves out there to be seen by their ideal clients - at this next level
 
They didn't use to have this experience, there was a time they felt confident and certain. But now…

  •  Lack of confidence at the new level they are playing
  •  Uncertain about charging the higher rates
  •  Nervous about bringing in an even more ideal client
  •  Acting like they are being their fully expansive self, but not integrating and embodying it in all places
  •  Feeling like they know they have this great impact to make - but yet something is keeping them feeling small and not taking action aligned to their big vision

Most of these women are not people who are just starting out - they have an offer, an ideal client, pricing, and CLIENTS!  
 
So, what's really going on...
 
We are always experiencing an upper spiral of development as a business owner, creator, leader, and visionary.  We may move through a challenge only to meet it again in a new way in the future. 
 
We can think there is something wrong, or feel like we are starting over, but the reality is that we are just working through a new layer of our development.  

 
The feelings of doubt, uncertainty, playing smaller than they desire are all normal and part of the restructuring in our system - acclimating to our next level of EXPANSION. 
 
One of my clients has created a very successful practice - when we started working together she was charging a very low hourly rate and eventually increased her rates substantially to a higher end offer and with a steady flow of clients.  Then, she went through a phase where she didn't have the same kind of flow happening - and she really wanted the flow.  You know what that's like, right?  I mean she REALLY WANTED the flow.  
 
So, when we looked at her system, we discovered she was holding a belief and an experience that more clients meant more overwhelm, more sickness, and more stress.  
 
So of course she wasn't bringing in more clients like she was before.  She had cleverly outwitted herself by creating a solution to the problem - it just wasn't the solution she actually wanted to be experiencing.  So instead, we created an upgrade in her system so she could experience ease and peace and have more clients.
 
AND without DOING a bunch of new things she created a handful of new clients all paying her in full! 
 
She shifted the INSIDE STORY - both in her beliefs and her energetic set-up so she could experience what she actually wanted. 
 
She had to be in a place where all the parts of her were on board with creating new clients - otherwise it felt like a system melt down. 
 
So, when you want to create more visibility in your business - of course you want to take the external actions so people know you are there and begin to develop a relationship with you.  However, if you haven't also aligned your INSIDE STORY to really wanting to BE SEEN people will not resonate with your message or take action in the same way.  

Do YOU feel like you are truly BEING SEEN in YOUR business? 


Do you WANT TO?

If you are not taking the actions and don't know how to move forward, that's one thing, but when you are taking the actions and you have created income in your business - even at great amounts - and then you don't, you know something is off.

Either way, whatever your situation or story is, the best way to increase the amount of flow in your business is to Expand Your Visibility (and really mean it).  
 
In order to change things up you have to be willing to do something different - and I mean pretty different. 
 
This doesn't have to mean "follow this 4 step system" that is totally not aligned to who you are or the essence of your business. 
 
What this means is that it's time to shift the INSIDE STORY so you can get back to taking the actions OR take the actions and REALLY want to experience a different result. 
 
Are you ready? 
I'm excited to offer this Expand Your Visibility - Activation Experience 
 
To Expand Your Visibility, we will work with the practical strategies & invisible influences to boost your visibility as a leader in your industry and increase your results.

We will spend 60-90 minutes together for this Visibility Activation Experience, and one 30 minute follow up call. 
 
There are 5 spots available for this Visibility Activation Experience working with me 1-1.  The investment for this experience is $350.
 
This is the ONLY way to work with me 1-1 at this low investment and it is a fraction of my standard rate.  And I'm very excited to share this unique experience and committed to help you bring your greatness out into the world in a bigger way! 
 
During this experience, we will work together to discover: 
 
-your current energetic visibility profile and what is possible
-what can be shifted now during our call
-what is your energetic block keeping you from your next level of visibility, expansion, and impact
-what your current amount of visibility is in your business, marketing, sales, and with your ideal clients or community
-how much of your unique greatness is visible in your business and marketing by your ideal clients
-the amount of money available to you in your current system
-how "big" is it safe for you to be and hold in your current energetic system
-how aligned you are currently to your current offerings
 
In addition, we will work with your energetic system and beliefs and do clearings and upgrades so you can boost your visibility in your business and in your presence.  
  
This is for you if you are ready to take your business to the next level - whether you are still in the start-up phase or you have already created a level of success and are ready to acclimate to the next level.   
  
If you book your Visibility Activation call with me in the next 24 hours you receive a $100 savings, receiving this experience for just $250 - and you will receive a 6-minute Daily Energy Practice you can listen to every day to continue to deepen into this experience. 
 
If you are ready to Expand Your Visibility and claim one of these Visibility Activation Experiences, Email me and we will follow up with the details to claim your spot! 
 
Here's to your Visibility Expansion!
Arriya
 
P.S.  If you want to skip to the details, just connect with me Here to claim your Visibility Activation Experience - a 1-1 program to work with me to create more visibility, expansion, and impact in your business!  
 
Just $350, and if you book in the next 24 hours you receive additional bonuses and a $100 savings! 

 

 

 

Without an adversary or a problem to "fix", do we lose our ability to fight?

To fight for something different?
To take a stand and create something better?

What I am noticing and witnessing with these amazing, connected, world changing clients I have the honor to support on their path, is that have something even more than a fight.

Something deeper.
Something stronger that pulls them forward.

They have commitment.

A commitment to experience and create Conscious Excellence.

Not because they have to.

Because they choose to.

They choose to experience greatness all around them.

They choose to experience their greatness in every area of their lives - and then get curious as to how it can delight them even more.

Not because they aren't grateful, or appreciative.

But because they are committed to life unfolding with surprise and delight.

They are committed to their greatness.

They are committed to themselves.

They KNOW that when they take the next step on their path, the people and experiences around them also have the opportunity to uplevel to meet them.

They are the creators.

And they are creating Conscious Excellence.

Are you ready? The Expansion Experience starts this week! PM me for details and some extra special perks for mentioning this post! <3

When your actions aren't creating the results you desire it's time to look deeper - not somewhere else.

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When your actions aren't creating the results you desire it's time to look deeper - not somewhere else.

Instead of changing and changing and changing your actions seeking for the approach that "works"...

Turn inward.

There is another layer available for your Mastery.

Not more things to do.

A more congruent, fully expressed, way to BE.

Action from THAT place creates different results.

Stop seeking. Stop searching.

Adjust your internal compass and align with a new set of results.

Are you ready to develop your next level of Mastery and Expand your possibility - and your results?

The Expansion Experience is a powerful experience designed to support you to experience more of your kind of success - in your business, in your money, and in your relationships.

We are starting soon! PM me for details (and some extra goodies for mentioning this post). 😘

Do you hold an energy of invisibility?

Do you hold an energy of invisibility? 

How will you know? 

Do you take aligned action but not see a comparable return? 

If you are ready, I invite you to join me in the Expansion Experience.

This is where you become more of YOU. Not because of me, but because of you. 

Yes, I will share things with you. Yes, you will develop new discoveries about yourself, new insights, new learnings, new practices. And those will come from you and from me as a way of stepping back into you as your teacher. 

I will support you to peel away the layers of the things that are keeping you from seeing your own truth.

Not because I KNOW your truth. But because this is the part I do. I peel away the layers to reveal the truth. 

DM me, reach out and I will share with you the details…

Will you join me? Will you walk this path with me? 

The path where we each become more of ourselves.

The path where we each discover more of our greatness and bring THAT into the world in a bigger, brighter, more powerful and impactful way.

Yes, THAT. ❤️

Are you feeling "in between"?

Are you feeling "in between"? Perhaps the way you were before (or who you were before) is not how or who you are now? AND at the same time the "new" version hasn't quite come into focus or clarity?

Instead of resisting it or trying to analyze the meaning, I invite you to invite in the discomfort. Welcome it. Cozy up with it. See it as an old friend. It has been here before, it will be here again.

When you move into a space of curiosity and observation you will move through this experience with more grace and ease.

And, you will likely revisit this place again and again as you are on this fast growth

Give yourself this gift. ❤️

An upset child.
An experience that creates fear.
A person or conflict. 
 A number in your bank account. 
A part of your body.

The energy you experience that feels like discomfort in your body, that's the thing you get to practice being with.

When we reclaim the part of ourselves that is bad or wrong or unsafe around that experience we come back into the truth that we are whole.

We are reclaiming a part of ourselves that we had banished, discarded, or shut down.

BE WITH the experience that creates this discomfort.

Practice being with it in your own body, your own energy, and emotions.

No need to change it.

Simply being with it is enough to remember that you are enough.

Even if your mind doesn't remember, the rest of your system will begin to reorganize in this remembering.

Give yourself this gift. ❤️

YOU rule your world.

You’re not a follower, you never have been, so step back into your innovator/leader role and change it up!

Only YOU can be the one to bring your work into the world in a way that is aligned for you. And anyone that is “telling you” or “showing you” HOW to do it – instead of connecting you back to what is your truth, peeling back the layers so you can see it clearly, is actually doing you a disservice.

You rule your world.
That’s all. 😉

You are a Warrior Priestess.

Let me explain...

I emerged from a powerful energy session AND a shaman healing session yesterday. And as I was hearing what the shaman was sharing with me, he mentioned these words for me...

You are a Warrior Priestess.

Now the word priestess is not a word I throw around. It's not something that I have considered myself to be or even tried on.

So I got curious.

I've been playing around with what it means to fully allow the warrior archetype to be present, and how to do that in a way that is in alignment with my values and doesn't feel like I'm fighting everything.

As I bring the two pieces together I can feel how it is taking a stand for something, or fighting for something, for truth, with integrity - as a leader of a movement.

That feels exciting and true.

(And the part of me where I feel myself fighting the overused priestess language will have to stand down for now.)😉

Are you willing to call yourself on your own stuff?

Are you willing to call yourself on your own stuff?

Are you willing to check in with yourself and know when it isn't meant to be?

Are you willing to see your dark AND your light?

Are you willing to see where you are hiding or giving up instead of letting your personal power shine so bright you get exactly what you want and even more?

When you own your stuff, all of it, the good, the bad, the powerful, the uncomfortable, that is where the growth is.

Compromise...

Compromise.

No one wants to think they are doing it.

But truly, on a scale of 1-10, how much are you compromising any part of yourself right now?

This can show up anywhere and everywhere.

Choices you make on a daily basis.
Big life decisions that have impacted the trajectory of your path.

It can feel overwhelming and unable to be undone.

But does it have to?

Nope.

If everything were serving you in some way to create an understanding, a skill, an experience of a polarity, how may this experience have served you in the past.

Trust me, it served you some how, even if it doesn't seem possible.

So now, what do you actually want to experience now?

Not with regret.
Not settling.
Not giving up.
Not fighting yourself.
Not fighting your situation.

What do you really want?

Start there.

Any compromise is still compromise.

It's not worth it and it creates internal conflict in your system that leads you astray from your path.

What do you want to experience - without compromise?

What if you set your standards even just a bit higher?

Allowing yourself to RECEIVE more.

What might happen, what might be possible then?

Where can you let yourself want more in relation to MONEY?

Join me for a free workshop - an EXPERIENCE - not another class.

This is where you create shifts in your money story, the energetics of your relationship with money in your system - so you can create and receive more!

(And if you are interested in working with me private to support you to shift your energetic system so you can create more in your business, relationships, and money, send me a PM to apply and see if this is the next step on your path!) 😘

The gifts of our children...

When you know your greatness and bring it into all the parts of your life it frees up space.

The time and energy that was used before fighting to go up stream, against your natural current, opens new possibilities.

As a parent I'm so curious to discover the gifts of my children and to watch as they reveal over time.

And to leverage tools to support me to have insights into their gifts so I can be witness to and appreciate it with them - instead of fighting against their natural current.

It feels so important to walk this path with my kiddos so they grow up KNOWING their gifts and accentuating them - instead of fitting in and suppressing their gifts - and discovering them when they are 40. 😉

Making this the norm - appreciating each individuals gifts starting as kids - is my big mission.

This has impacts everywhere - in parenting, in schools, in communication, in personal responsibility, in business!

Who's in?  Let's change the world!

How are you showing up with Money?

If you have been making money in your business in the past and something shifted, or you are setting yourself up for the next upgrade in your money experience - sometimes things aren't working like you want them to.   

This happens for people when they are moving through an UP LEVEL experience, where the things that worked before aren't working anymore - there is a new level of truth or authenticity being called for.

It also shows up for people when they are in a state of fear or panic - either because of something that happened, or because of a money story from the past that is resurfacing.

If you know HOW to do all the "things" to create more money in your business - but the money isn't flowing like you want it to, it's time to get curious.

Next week I am hosting a complimentary workshop on the Expansion Experience focused specifically on MONEY! 

Click here to register and receive call in details!

Leading from your head, your heart, or something else...

Throughout my career in corporate leading teams, managing sales targets, developing product concepts, it was always ruled by the mighty spreadsheet, which was were the mighty dollar lived in our projections. If it didn't fit on the spreadsheet it was somehow unimportant (even with so many attempts at quantifying the softer aspects). Everything required data to prove its worth. So of course, that's code for look externally to prove your internal worth or value. Whether it's for an idea, a product, a business case, or even yourself. So listening to your gut or intuition, is rightly set aside, as it doesn't fit into the spreadsheet - color coded and all. And I understand that. When you look at the energy of many businesses, underneath all the targets, goals, missions, is FEAR. If I don't X then I may lose my job, not be worthy, not be able to provide for my family. And it goes all the way up and down in a organization. Fear is a powerful ruler. So where does intuition find its place in business, and does it? There is an epidemic of stress and anxiety in employees and leaders. And at the root of that is a misalignment within themselves. The reality is that we are not created to live only from our head, we have this whole body and lots of wisdom and knowing that goes with it. When we shut off part of ourselves we are automatically out of alignment. In order to come back into full integrity in ourselves, we have to bring back online all the parts that make up who we are. We are a complex being and working only from our brain is severely limiting our potential, our health, our joy and satisfaction, and our impact. Yes, it may require having challenging conversations and adding more depth to the metrics - AND the ripple effect that comes from having whole, fulfilled people making important decisions is priceless - for the person, the company, and the community or world. It's time to lead from your TRUTH, the whole of yourself, not just your over worked brain.

Throughout my career in corporate leading teams, managing sales targets, developing product concepts, it was always ruled by the mighty spreadsheet, which was were the mighty dollar lived in our projections.

If it didn't fit on the spreadsheet it was somehow unimportant (even with so many attempts at quantifying the softer aspects).

Everything required data to prove its worth.

So of course, that's code for look externally to prove your internal worth or value.

Whether it's for an idea, a product, a business case, or even yourself.

So listening to your gut or intuition, is rightly set aside, as it doesn't fit into the spreadsheet - color coded and all.

And I understand that. When you look at the energy of many businesses, underneath all the targets, goals, missions, is FEAR.

If I don't X then I may lose my job, not be worthy, not be able to provide for my family.

And it goes all the way up and down in a organization.

Fear is a powerful ruler.

So where does intuition find its place in business, and does it?

There is an epidemic of stress and anxiety in employees and leaders. And at the root of that is a misalignment within themselves.

The reality is that we are not created to live only from our head, we have this whole body and lots of wisdom and knowing that goes with it.

When we shut off part of ourselves we are automatically out of alignment.

In order to come back into full integrity in ourselves, we have to bring back online all the parts that make up who we are.

We are a complex being and working only from our brain is severely limiting our potential, our health, our joy and satisfaction, and our impact.

Yes, it may require having challenging conversations and adding more depth to the metrics - AND the ripple effect that comes from having whole, fulfilled people making important decisions is priceless - for the person, the company, and the community or world.

It's time to lead from your TRUTH, the whole of yourself, not just your over worked brain.

Finding your CENTER in the chaos...

As I sat down to my practice (a combo of yoga, meditation, energy work, writing) it was peaceful and calm.  The kids just went outside to play and I was taking a few moments during this moment to stay with my commitment to myself.  

We are on spring break this week and my experiment that I am deepening into is letting my work, my personal practice, and my relationships/parenting all happen interconnected - without separation.  

In the past I had a way of creating a separation for each of these things.  There was a time and even a space that made it be separate.  There wasn't exactly a schedule, but there was a time and space.  And if I didn't have that, then something wouldn't happen.  

It became this all or nothing experience in each moment - that worked, but now I am open to something different. 

So we are on one of our mini-adventures playing for a few days this week and I sat down to my practice.  

As I'm in the middle of my meditation my little one comes around and hangs out by me and things start to get a little busy - I hear noises - as I peek an eye open to see what's up, I see that he is playing with the foam exercise equipment near by.  He gets more and more creative and it gets more and more noisy.  Until one lands right on my foot.  

:) I opened my eyes again.   

I noticed what I was experiencing, and as I had been all day, I was feeling very present and peaceful.  

And then he went back to experimenting.

This daily practice is my way of feeling connected to my center even if things are literally going bump around me.  

It's the thing that allows me to connect into the words that want to be said, the way I want to be of service to my clients and community, the way I stay connected to what is true (for me). 

This feels like the piece that opens up so much more possibility to bring all the parts of me together to BE all the time, instead of keeping everything separate so I can "focus".  

Parenting - Business - Personal Practice - AS ONE... the experiment continues...<3 

How do you find your center? 

If you are interested in deepening into your relationships, business, and personal development - all flourishing from your GREATNESS and allowing it all to grow and EXPAND from there, send me a PM.  

I am currently inviting amazing world changing women into my next group, The Expansion Experience, so they can bring their greatness out into the world from their center, from their place of truth, and expand their presence, their impact, their income, and their experiences in every way! 

I am witnessing a most beautiful thing...

When I first started in the coaching business many years ago I was taught that there has to be a pain that needs to be solved in order for someone to take action and invest in the solution.

And while that is true, I always wondered about my own experience.

Can there be more?

At first my pain was that I wanted to leave the corporate world to spend more time with my kids and do work that felt more purposeful and aligned.

And along the way I have invested heavily in myself and my learning.

I also picked up a few judgements on my self because of my insatiable desire to continue learning.

At first those were partly true, wanting to learn more because a part of me didn't feel enough - I didn't know enough, I wasn't good enough...

But then that shifted and I could discern when I was investing to learn more because it was the next part of my path versus the old story.

And now I have been out of corporate for some years now and I continue to learn and invest in myself.

And I know why I do it.

It's because it's who I am. It's part of my path. And I LOVE It.

And what I am witnessing now are other women who are here to create their impact in the world investing in themselves - not because they have a problem to solve - but because they are committed to a level of excellence, committed to experiencing something truly amazing in their whole life, and they know the path to that is through their own experience.

As they continue to move deeper on their path more possibilities and opportunities open to them.

They don't do it BECAUSE of what comes next, they do it because IT IS what's next.

Step into your greatness...

What if instead of doing what we're told, we did what we KNOW?

What if instead of being logical, we are INSPIRED?

What if instead of feeling like you are put in a box throughout your life, you are able to live full, expansive, and FREE?

Every day we are told what to think, how to be, what to do - from the moment we are born, through school, to the job, and on and on.

Many of us have spent decades following the rules, moving down the conveyor belt of life.

For what?

So you have a nice career or business. You have a family. You have a nice home. You have a nice savings. It's nice. Yes.

What if you were moving into each experience from a place of excitement, truth, confidence, and inspiration?

When we each stand in our greatness, know our strengths - gifts - skills, our contribution to the world (community, family, school, etc.), imagine what begins to shift?

Your relationships are more empowered. You stand up for yourself. You see your greatness and own it. Others see it too.

You do work you love and that lights you up. You infuse it into everything you do. Others see it too.

You begin to do things from a place of inspiration, excitement, and ease. Because it's from your greatness - the thing you do that's so easy for you that you think everyone has it too - but they don't. It's your greatness.

Step into your greatness.

Shifting the energy...

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As a powerful creator and entrepreneur, you likely hold very strong desires. What you want to create or experience in your business, with your clients, with your money, with all of the rest of your life, yes?

There is a way that the desire can be kept outside, as in off in the distant future. Even if it feels close, it is still away, not here now.

I love this practice to shift the energy...

So you have this desire, there is something you want to create or experience for yourself, yes?

First, get super clear on that.

Then, if you were to imagine where that is in relation to your body, where do you notice it?

I find that often it is outside of the body, in front or off to the side.

Invite it to come closer, to move toward your body, to find a home inside your body somewhere.

Notice what comes up for you as you invite it into your space, into your reality, into your present time.

Will it move into your present time, or are there things coming up for you to look at and work with first?

There is a powerful difference between wanting something to happen and allowing it to happen NOW.

P.S. If you are ready to bring your creation into the world in a way that shines from your greatness, I am currently inviting amazing world changing women into my upcoming group program - send me a PM if you are ready to create more expansion from your truth!

Is it a nudge or a smackdown...

People either want to change or they don't want to change. 

People who are OK with changing experience little nudges that let them know things are off course or need to be adjusted.  

People who aren't a fan of change tend to pass by those nudges until they become louder and louder and result in the universal smack in the face - something presents itself that as 'big enough' to get the attention and be worthy of the change. 

I tend to enjoy change, OK, I actually really love it.  And, at the same time there are places in my life where I have had to wait to receive the smack down before I was willing to see things differently or be open to making a change.  There are still areas like that for me.  I choose to take on the things that I feel most connected or inspired or excited to shift - and sometimes there is a different plan for me that I don't think I'm ready for, so it takes a bigger 'nudge' for me to actually see it.  

The cool thing is that the knowledge and tools you develop when you are faced with the smack down are the same kind of tools you can use for the day to day nudges.  We just don't always look at it like that.  

If you are experiencing a universal smack down right now, I get it, it can be a big shake up to everything you know to be true.  And there are strategies and tools that can support you in the big ones, just the same as the nudges.  

The cool thing is that you can use this as a place to move with or you can choose to experience more struggle and continue to fight it or resist it.  

Where are you willing to create more ease?  
Are you willing to embrace some change to create that?  

Cheers to you!

I am in the early stages of introducing the 5 Levels of Expansion so you can create more expansion in your experience of business, work, and relationships - and develop the tools and the inner knowing to move through anything you choose to allow it to be even better.  

If you want to be in on the first info about this, send me a PM and I'll keep you posted with details, or click here to add your name to the "notify me first" list. 
 

I don't want to be a leader...

I don't want to be a leader. 

Hang with me for a moment on this...

I will say first that I am a leader.  I am a leader of myself, for my family, for my business, for my vision. 

And I don't want to be a leader for you.  

I want for you to find your own answers, your own questions, and your own way. 

Here's the difference for me right now.  

I love being in my leadership energy - I can see more clearly how to move forward, how to serve my clients and community, where to receive instead of give...

And I am fiercely committed to you finding your own way.  Of course everyone who has created their definition of success can tell you "these are the steps I took to get here".  And, the flaw in that is what if you actually desire different things? 

Let's just say we all want 6 and 7 and 8 figure businesses - as we are all told to want.  :) 

And, that's all fine and probably very true.  But the way we want to do that is likely very different.  

I like taking my kids to school and picking them up, this is something I craved when I worked in corporate and I love this time with them - whether they had a great day, are feeling cranky, whatever it is.  This an important time for me to BE with them.  

So I will design my business accordingly. 

There are also all the different ways to create that successful business - retreats, consulting, services, products, online, offline...

There are really important nuances that need to be incorporated into your way of creating your desired success.  And only you KNOW that. 

So no matter what you are wanting to create, of course there are people who you can follow to be inspired, receive tips, and deepen your knowledge and skill set.  But the key is that no one will do it exactly the way you do, and that is exactly the way it should be!  

No more people just doing what someone else is doing - it lacks depth and truth.  A large infusion of YOU is critical. 

The way to do that is to create EXPANSION in who you are being in your business, in your life, in your presence, in your impact - and you do that by connecting with the part of you that knows.  

This does't come from your head, or your heart, or your gut - but in a way it comes from the thing that's even bigger than all the individual parts.  It comes from your knowing.  It never steers you wrong.  

I am excited to deepen in the experience of creating EXPANSION with a group of other powerful women who know they are here to do things their own way - even if they are still discovering what that way is.  If you are ready to create Expansion in your Presence, your Impact, your Gifts, your Abundance, send me a PM and let's connect.  

I am fiercely committed to you being an EXAMPLE, not just a leader.  <3