Are you TOO BIG?

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Isn't it time to stop playing the "I'll smash myself down to make it ok for you" game?

What if you leaned toward your bigness? 
What if you amplified your greatness? 
What if you activated your gifts even more?

Yep, some people might not be able to handle it, and some may not even be able to see you anymore.

And those who are meant to see you for who you are will be able to see you, hear you, connect with you in a way that feels so much lighter, simpler, and true.

It's exhausting holding it in.

And, it's not an invitation to let your Ego run wild all over everyone.

It is an invitation to shine brighter from the light in you, your truth, your essence, your greatness.

People who need you to be smaller so they can be ok are not in your highest and best good.

And you are not serving them in being their highest self by pretending to be something your not.

Sure, you're still working through your stuff.

And you probably always will be in some fashion, as that's the rapid path of expansion you are riding, right?

And THAT doesn't mean you have to "hold it in" until... some point not yet defined.

It's time to take up space NOW

It's time to amplify your light NOW

It's time to activate your greatness NOW

This isn't an intellectual process, it's an energetic upgrade.

This is one of the energetic patterns of (in)visibility that shows up for people here to create their great change in the world.

Do you want support on this path? Message me and let's take a look at what's available.
PM for details. It's time... ✨✨✨

When you feel CALLED to deliver your next level of work...

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When you feel CALLED (or really pulled 😉) to deliver your next level of work...

And you witness the formerly confident, capable, get it done person begins to feel the uncertainty, the doubt - the process of bringing YOUR OWN WORK into the world. 

Yep, we all know of the systems and steps for "how to do business"... 

But what about the actual LABOR and BIRTHING of your creation, your work, your purpose into the world? 

When you receive a knowing, information, a creation, and NO ONE has done it before, then what? 

Somehow that brings up all the places where you are not yet embodying your greatness. 

And - for many connected entrepreneurs who are moving through this process now - it also means a melting away of the "way" you used to "get stuff done" and a somewhat painful process of "allowing" the work or the creation to come into being. 

Somehow we have to get our "type A, overachiever, make it happen" selves out of the way to LET the goodness come in - without "having to" DO ALL THE THINGS.

The way you used to create lists, have tasks, have timelines, and deadlines - have a strong need to fade away. 

"But I don't want to!" [In the best toddler voice...] (right??)

I hear you. I've been through this too - and am even choosing to continue the evolution.

Re-learning how to be in your business, how to DO (and NOT do) your business. 

It was painful - challenging. 

And, it was liberating, and powerful, and profound...

and when I stopped the fight, there was an ease about it I hadn't yet known. 

And it was hard! Not easy! Re-learning, un-learning, un-doing, finding a way into BEING - that is some of the hardest work to do. 

And when you choose that, when you choose to set down the fight, and move toward it like a conveyor belt bringing you down the aisle with all the goodies just for you, it's actually pretty amazing too!

Again, not easy. And also, there's a way we can choose "not hard". 

But people aren't talking about this part. 

There are successful, "get it done" entrepreneurs who have melted the old, to let it all go, to step into something even bigger, even greater. 

Greater because it is even more aligned to the thing they are here to do. 

It just doesn't always look like that when you are IN IT. 

So in all of this, please know, you are not alone. This is what is being called for next. 

You are not crazy. 

Trust yourself. Trust the process. (Even if you don't really know what that is.) 

And ask for support if you feel that too. 

What I know supported me in this CREATION process more than anything is:

Doing my own looking at what is and isn't true. 

Being willing to BE in the in-between. 

Being willing to not yet KNOW what comes next and when.

(BEING WILLING was one of my biggest challenges.) 😐

And receiving support from people that are are not attached to THE WAY - and open to the fact that you are birthing YOUR WAY - and no one has done that YET!

If you are feeling some relief thinking about this kind of support moving through this next layer of your work coming now, send me an email and let's see what's available next for you. 

I have created a level of support to meet you in your powerful leadership as you prepare to create your Creation. Whether that's your next evolution, project, speaking gig, event... 

This is available to you as a CREATOR when you know that the thing you DON'T SEE for yourself is the thing that will allow you to step into the next level and release the pieces that are holding you back - even if you can't name it. 

This is beyond the actions, the lists, the brainstorms. 

When you know that YOU are the creator of your experience - and you know there are other factors impacting your next level of success, it's time. 

It's time to work the crunchy places, to work the energetics, to do your personal work - because ultimately that is the thing that creates what you experience next.

So let's see, send me an emaill and let's connect. And we can see what is the right thing to meet you and your next creative EVOLUTION.
 

There are layers and layers and layers...

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BEING SEEN is not just a setting of ON and OFF.

There are layers and layers and layers.

Who you are and how much of yourself you let BE SEEN may vary in different groups, with different people, in different settings.

The more we release the need or desire for it to be done or complete.

The more we are available to move through what is available for you in each moment.

Without judgement
With curiosity.

Are you open and curious to moving through the next layer of invisibility - no matter how that may be presenting itself - so just a bit more of YOU can truly BE SEEN?

✨✨Would you like support with this? Your next client, speaking opportunity, Up Level, Elevation, is available to you NOW.

If you would like to book a complimentary Visibility Expansion session where we take a look at your energetic system to see what is available, send me a PM me, There are just a couple sessions available for next week. ✨✨

Can you FEEL that?

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So I'm feeling into the word BOLD.

It feels different to me now. There's a difference.

There's the BOLD that comes from a sense of pushing, stretching, trying too hard, where ego is the main connection and driver.

Then there's the BOLD that feels available now that's more connected, it sits back from a place of knowing and doing, and still might feel edgy to the mind...

...But you can't NOT do it.

This is where Being Bold is who you are, how you are called and inspired to show up.

You don't have to TRY to do it.

It's actually the TRYING NOT TO DO IT is where you catch yourself - in this Boldness - taming it, quieting it, tucking it in.
Thats where this "work" takes place.

It's actually easier to BE BOLD in this way than it is to CONTAIN the boldness.

Can you FEEL that?

Can you CONNECT to that version of BOLD?

The one where your mind has to STEP OUT OF THE WAY - instead of TRYING to LEAD the way.

Yes, there. Let's play there for awhile.

What does it mean to be more VISIBLE?

What does it mean to be more VISIBLE?

...Making a bigger impact
Serving more people
Influencing a larger community
Writing, posting, sharing consistently on social media
Creating and sharing videos
Sending consistent emails with value
Increasing clients paying you for your gifts...

Yep, these are some of the things it may mean to you.
So how do you do this?

Well, it's not someone telling you "do this and that and this and that" and WA POW💥 you have success, you are more visible.

Instead it's about clearing the way so you ARE more visible.

✨Restoring your power that you gave away (consciously or not), causing you to shrink down and go off the radar.


✨Removing the invisibility curtain (or learning how to use it as a super power) so people can see you and receive what you are already putting out there.


✨Upgrading who you are being and creating alignment with your message, your offers, and your pricing.


✨Creating safety in your system so you can "let yourself" be seen without feeling the deep desire to run and hide.

There are some pieces that are universal and there are others unique to you.

Would you like to have a better understanding of these invisible influences impacting this next level of success for you?

Send me a PM and I'll add you to the wait list for my next complimentary Visibility Expansion session, where I do a read of your energetic system to discover how it's set up now and what's available next.

I know you're doing the work - this is about creating a match with your actions and your big vision, creating a new result.😘

Where are you hiding from your dreams?

Where are you hiding from your dreams?

-Stopping yourself before you let it happen
-Starting but not following through
-Seeing the things that aren't working, instead of the clues left along the way

Are you willing to take a stand for receiving what you say you want?

Will you claim it for yourself?

Will you let it find you - all the way?

Will you stop hiding from yourself?

Are you ready to BE SEEN NOW - for you, your business, your dreams?

Send me a PM and let's take a look at what's keeping you and your business from being seen now - at this level.

Are you sucking it in? And by "it" I mean YOU, your power?

Are you sucking it in?
And by "it" I mean YOU, your power?

This week I have been doing Visibility Expansion readings and I've been witnessing how even as successful women making a big impact in the world, we can still hold ourselves back.

What I'm noticing is a pulling back of the power, from the power space in your body. It has an energy of hiding and trying to NOT be "too big".

And, that's a lot of work!

Trying to hold yourself back so you're not TOO BIG - exhausting!
So feel into that space in your body, where do you feel that sense of pulling yourself back, shrinking down, getting small.

You don't even have to KNOW the whole story about it, just witness it, be with it, give it some attention.

What does it have to offer you?

Do YOU feel like you are truly BEING SEEN in YOUR business? 

I have been speaking with some AMAZING women these last few weeks.  Women who are industry changers, leaders, visionaries, people with a big mission and a desire to create a big impact!  And the thing that showed up again and again is that they are somehow keeping themselves from really putting their work and themselves out there to be seen by their ideal clients - at this next level
 
They didn't use to have this experience, there was a time they felt confident and certain. But now…

  •  Lack of confidence at the new level they are playing
  •  Uncertain about charging the higher rates
  •  Nervous about bringing in an even more ideal client
  •  Acting like they are being their fully expansive self, but not integrating and embodying it in all places
  •  Feeling like they know they have this great impact to make - but yet something is keeping them feeling small and not taking action aligned to their big vision

Most of these women are not people who are just starting out - they have an offer, an ideal client, pricing, and CLIENTS!  
 
So, what's really going on...
 
We are always experiencing an upper spiral of development as a business owner, creator, leader, and visionary.  We may move through a challenge only to meet it again in a new way in the future. 
 
We can think there is something wrong, or feel like we are starting over, but the reality is that we are just working through a new layer of our development.  

 
The feelings of doubt, uncertainty, playing smaller than they desire are all normal and part of the restructuring in our system - acclimating to our next level of EXPANSION. 
 
One of my clients has created a very successful practice - when we started working together she was charging a very low hourly rate and eventually increased her rates substantially to a higher end offer and with a steady flow of clients.  Then, she went through a phase where she didn't have the same kind of flow happening - and she really wanted the flow.  You know what that's like, right?  I mean she REALLY WANTED the flow.  
 
So, when we looked at her system, we discovered she was holding a belief and an experience that more clients meant more overwhelm, more sickness, and more stress.  
 
So of course she wasn't bringing in more clients like she was before.  She had cleverly outwitted herself by creating a solution to the problem - it just wasn't the solution she actually wanted to be experiencing.  So instead, we created an upgrade in her system so she could experience ease and peace and have more clients.
 
AND without DOING a bunch of new things she created a handful of new clients all paying her in full! 
 
She shifted the INSIDE STORY - both in her beliefs and her energetic set-up so she could experience what she actually wanted. 
 
She had to be in a place where all the parts of her were on board with creating new clients - otherwise it felt like a system melt down. 
 
So, when you want to create more visibility in your business - of course you want to take the external actions so people know you are there and begin to develop a relationship with you.  However, if you haven't also aligned your INSIDE STORY to really wanting to BE SEEN people will not resonate with your message or take action in the same way.  

Do YOU feel like you are truly BEING SEEN in YOUR business? 


Do you WANT TO?

If you are not taking the actions and don't know how to move forward, that's one thing, but when you are taking the actions and you have created income in your business - even at great amounts - and then you don't, you know something is off.

Either way, whatever your situation or story is, the best way to increase the amount of flow in your business is to Expand Your Visibility (and really mean it).  
 
In order to change things up you have to be willing to do something different - and I mean pretty different. 
 
This doesn't have to mean "follow this 4 step system" that is totally not aligned to who you are or the essence of your business. 
 
What this means is that it's time to shift the INSIDE STORY so you can get back to taking the actions OR take the actions and REALLY want to experience a different result. 
 
Are you ready? 
I'm excited to offer this Expand Your Visibility - Activation Experience 
 
To Expand Your Visibility, we will work with the practical strategies & invisible influences to boost your visibility as a leader in your industry and increase your results.

We will spend 60-90 minutes together for this Visibility Activation Experience, and one 30 minute follow up call. 
 
There are 5 spots available for this Visibility Activation Experience working with me 1-1.  The investment for this experience is $350.
 
This is the ONLY way to work with me 1-1 at this low investment and it is a fraction of my standard rate.  And I'm very excited to share this unique experience and committed to help you bring your greatness out into the world in a bigger way! 
 
During this experience, we will work together to discover: 
 
-your current energetic visibility profile and what is possible
-what can be shifted now during our call
-what is your energetic block keeping you from your next level of visibility, expansion, and impact
-what your current amount of visibility is in your business, marketing, sales, and with your ideal clients or community
-how much of your unique greatness is visible in your business and marketing by your ideal clients
-the amount of money available to you in your current system
-how "big" is it safe for you to be and hold in your current energetic system
-how aligned you are currently to your current offerings
 
In addition, we will work with your energetic system and beliefs and do clearings and upgrades so you can boost your visibility in your business and in your presence.  
  
This is for you if you are ready to take your business to the next level - whether you are still in the start-up phase or you have already created a level of success and are ready to acclimate to the next level.   
  
If you book your Visibility Activation call with me in the next 24 hours you receive a $100 savings, receiving this experience for just $250 - and you will receive a 6-minute Daily Energy Practice you can listen to every day to continue to deepen into this experience. 
 
If you are ready to Expand Your Visibility and claim one of these Visibility Activation Experiences, Email me and we will follow up with the details to claim your spot! 
 
Here's to your Visibility Expansion!
Arriya
 
P.S.  If you want to skip to the details, just connect with me Here to claim your Visibility Activation Experience - a 1-1 program to work with me to create more visibility, expansion, and impact in your business!  
 
Just $350, and if you book in the next 24 hours you receive additional bonuses and a $100 savings! 

 

 

 

Without an adversary or a problem to "fix", do we lose our ability to fight?

To fight for something different?
To take a stand and create something better?

What I am noticing and witnessing with these amazing, connected, world changing clients I have the honor to support on their path, is that have something even more than a fight.

Something deeper.
Something stronger that pulls them forward.

They have commitment.

A commitment to experience and create Conscious Excellence.

Not because they have to.

Because they choose to.

They choose to experience greatness all around them.

They choose to experience their greatness in every area of their lives - and then get curious as to how it can delight them even more.

Not because they aren't grateful, or appreciative.

But because they are committed to life unfolding with surprise and delight.

They are committed to their greatness.

They are committed to themselves.

They KNOW that when they take the next step on their path, the people and experiences around them also have the opportunity to uplevel to meet them.

They are the creators.

And they are creating Conscious Excellence.

Are you ready? The Expansion Experience starts this week! PM me for details and some extra special perks for mentioning this post! <3

When your actions aren't creating the results you desire it's time to look deeper - not somewhere else.

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When your actions aren't creating the results you desire it's time to look deeper - not somewhere else.

Instead of changing and changing and changing your actions seeking for the approach that "works"...

Turn inward.

There is another layer available for your Mastery.

Not more things to do.

A more congruent, fully expressed, way to BE.

Action from THAT place creates different results.

Stop seeking. Stop searching.

Adjust your internal compass and align with a new set of results.

Are you ready to develop your next level of Mastery and Expand your possibility - and your results?

The Expansion Experience is a powerful experience designed to support you to experience more of your kind of success - in your business, in your money, and in your relationships.

We are starting soon! PM me for details (and some extra goodies for mentioning this post). 😘

Do you hold an energy of invisibility?

Do you hold an energy of invisibility? 

How will you know? 

Do you take aligned action but not see a comparable return? 

If you are ready, I invite you to join me in the Expansion Experience.

This is where you become more of YOU. Not because of me, but because of you. 

Yes, I will share things with you. Yes, you will develop new discoveries about yourself, new insights, new learnings, new practices. And those will come from you and from me as a way of stepping back into you as your teacher. 

I will support you to peel away the layers of the things that are keeping you from seeing your own truth.

Not because I KNOW your truth. But because this is the part I do. I peel away the layers to reveal the truth. 

DM me, reach out and I will share with you the details…

Will you join me? Will you walk this path with me? 

The path where we each become more of ourselves.

The path where we each discover more of our greatness and bring THAT into the world in a bigger, brighter, more powerful and impactful way.

Yes, THAT. ❤️

Are you feeling "in between"?

Are you feeling "in between"? Perhaps the way you were before (or who you were before) is not how or who you are now? AND at the same time the "new" version hasn't quite come into focus or clarity?

Instead of resisting it or trying to analyze the meaning, I invite you to invite in the discomfort. Welcome it. Cozy up with it. See it as an old friend. It has been here before, it will be here again.

When you move into a space of curiosity and observation you will move through this experience with more grace and ease.

And, you will likely revisit this place again and again as you are on this fast growth

Give yourself this gift. ❤️

An upset child.
An experience that creates fear.
A person or conflict. 
 A number in your bank account. 
A part of your body.

The energy you experience that feels like discomfort in your body, that's the thing you get to practice being with.

When we reclaim the part of ourselves that is bad or wrong or unsafe around that experience we come back into the truth that we are whole.

We are reclaiming a part of ourselves that we had banished, discarded, or shut down.

BE WITH the experience that creates this discomfort.

Practice being with it in your own body, your own energy, and emotions.

No need to change it.

Simply being with it is enough to remember that you are enough.

Even if your mind doesn't remember, the rest of your system will begin to reorganize in this remembering.

Give yourself this gift. ❤️

YOU rule your world.

You’re not a follower, you never have been, so step back into your innovator/leader role and change it up!

Only YOU can be the one to bring your work into the world in a way that is aligned for you. And anyone that is “telling you” or “showing you” HOW to do it – instead of connecting you back to what is your truth, peeling back the layers so you can see it clearly, is actually doing you a disservice.

You rule your world.
That’s all. 😉

You are a Warrior Priestess.

Let me explain...

I emerged from a powerful energy session AND a shaman healing session yesterday. And as I was hearing what the shaman was sharing with me, he mentioned these words for me...

You are a Warrior Priestess.

Now the word priestess is not a word I throw around. It's not something that I have considered myself to be or even tried on.

So I got curious.

I've been playing around with what it means to fully allow the warrior archetype to be present, and how to do that in a way that is in alignment with my values and doesn't feel like I'm fighting everything.

As I bring the two pieces together I can feel how it is taking a stand for something, or fighting for something, for truth, with integrity - as a leader of a movement.

That feels exciting and true.

(And the part of me where I feel myself fighting the overused priestess language will have to stand down for now.)😉

Are you willing to call yourself on your own stuff?

Are you willing to call yourself on your own stuff?

Are you willing to check in with yourself and know when it isn't meant to be?

Are you willing to see your dark AND your light?

Are you willing to see where you are hiding or giving up instead of letting your personal power shine so bright you get exactly what you want and even more?

When you own your stuff, all of it, the good, the bad, the powerful, the uncomfortable, that is where the growth is.

Compromise...

Compromise.

No one wants to think they are doing it.

But truly, on a scale of 1-10, how much are you compromising any part of yourself right now?

This can show up anywhere and everywhere.

Choices you make on a daily basis.
Big life decisions that have impacted the trajectory of your path.

It can feel overwhelming and unable to be undone.

But does it have to?

Nope.

If everything were serving you in some way to create an understanding, a skill, an experience of a polarity, how may this experience have served you in the past.

Trust me, it served you some how, even if it doesn't seem possible.

So now, what do you actually want to experience now?

Not with regret.
Not settling.
Not giving up.
Not fighting yourself.
Not fighting your situation.

What do you really want?

Start there.

Any compromise is still compromise.

It's not worth it and it creates internal conflict in your system that leads you astray from your path.

What do you want to experience - without compromise?

What if you set your standards even just a bit higher?

Allowing yourself to RECEIVE more.

What might happen, what might be possible then?

Where can you let yourself want more in relation to MONEY?

Join me for a free workshop - an EXPERIENCE - not another class.

This is where you create shifts in your money story, the energetics of your relationship with money in your system - so you can create and receive more!

(And if you are interested in working with me private to support you to shift your energetic system so you can create more in your business, relationships, and money, send me a PM to apply and see if this is the next step on your path!) 😘

The gifts of our children...

When you know your greatness and bring it into all the parts of your life it frees up space.

The time and energy that was used before fighting to go up stream, against your natural current, opens new possibilities.

As a parent I'm so curious to discover the gifts of my children and to watch as they reveal over time.

And to leverage tools to support me to have insights into their gifts so I can be witness to and appreciate it with them - instead of fighting against their natural current.

It feels so important to walk this path with my kiddos so they grow up KNOWING their gifts and accentuating them - instead of fitting in and suppressing their gifts - and discovering them when they are 40. 😉

Making this the norm - appreciating each individuals gifts starting as kids - is my big mission.

This has impacts everywhere - in parenting, in schools, in communication, in personal responsibility, in business!

Who's in?  Let's change the world!

How are you showing up with Money?

If you have been making money in your business in the past and something shifted, or you are setting yourself up for the next upgrade in your money experience - sometimes things aren't working like you want them to.   

This happens for people when they are moving through an UP LEVEL experience, where the things that worked before aren't working anymore - there is a new level of truth or authenticity being called for.

It also shows up for people when they are in a state of fear or panic - either because of something that happened, or because of a money story from the past that is resurfacing.

If you know HOW to do all the "things" to create more money in your business - but the money isn't flowing like you want it to, it's time to get curious.

Next week I am hosting a complimentary workshop on the Expansion Experience focused specifically on MONEY! 

Click here to register and receive call in details!